Woke up today still having those pains, only now its in my back. NOT a fun time. Besides this I am very heated and mad at my recent house guest. I had written how I feel that just because she is my mother she feels she is needing to be catered to. This morning my mom decided to make breakfast. She made waffle mix ( used my last box)uses the waffle iron, eats, puts her waffle with syrup BACK on the iron to cook longer { can’t make this up } When she is all done, leaves. DOESN’T CLEAN any of the mess. Not the mixing bowl, not the sticky iron, NOTHING. AND when she rinsed her plate, its not just syrup its chunks of waffles in my sink. Seriously people how old do you need to be to know this is just rude no matter where you are. I at this point am livid. I text her how I found what she did rude. She responds how I was in the wrong and next time she wont be staying here because she doesn’t feel like she can, how I am rude for not offering breakfast…but lets go back to when we discussed her coming every other week. She said she will help with food when here, cook sometimes, spend time. Now the 3x she has been here, I cooked or Jose bought dinner, she used and did not replace our food, drank my wine, used my hairbrush, my shampoo and conditioner and so on. Not only that she expected me to make dinner for her. This is just ignorant behavior. I am all for having house guests. Being a host what not, but when you are here multiple weeks and not ONCE help. Or even offer help, then yes I am going to be frustrated. I will say she did cook once. So sorry ill give her that one. I just want to know am I wrong for being so annoyed? Is this a normal reaction?
I am a little bummed too because Jose sold my other parents house today and they are officially moving out of NJ. I will miss them being so close. The Fenlons are like my other parents. Brian, is walking me down the aisle for my wedding. He was around when my dad was here, and always was a nice man to me and my family. His wife says I imprinted on him. I remember him and the memories of the beach and what not because when your little you don’t think your dad wont always be there, so I agree with this statement.
Jose took me and the boys to dinner tonight for Hunter’s school’s fundraiser. Was nice to not cook since I feel like shit. Speaking of school the boys are hoping for no school. Apparently we have a snow storm coming in. I think we will only get rain but maybe they can wear their pajamas inside out and backwards. Ha-ha.
So enlighten me with some stories of how your parents drive you crazy, make me feel normal! Also before I go I do want to give a shout out to one of my employees. She stepped up today and showed her character and as a manager of a new store its good to see who I can count on in the future. You GO GIRL!
Off to relax with my man..have nice night and keep it SiMpLe.
Simple. 